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There is something really magical about the first few months of a romantic relationship.  It’s a time filled with excitement, flirting and discovery. Experiencing all the firsts of your relationship and recounting the goodness to your best friends, sisters, and mom.  It’s a time that you enjoy just being with this new person in your life that is exempt of pressure and expectations.  It really is a time that is full of fun and romance!  I found myself thinking back to those days wishing that it could be that time again. As I pondered a while longer, I changed my mind.

I will be the first one to admit, I do not flirt tirelessly with my husband via text and conversation all the waking hours of the day like I did when we had first met.  I do not stay awake until the wee hours of the morning to spend time with him or talking to him on the phone like we used to before we were married.   I do not hang on every touch and kiss like I once did. Our relationship is not free of pressure and expectations.

These feelings and actions have been replaced by companionship, friendship, service, trust, and unconditional love. We had the opportunity to attend our Stake's temple night last week.  As we wrapped up our evening an elderly woman approached me and asked how long we have been married. I told her just under a year. She said wow! Your love for one another is so apparent!  You two are doing something right in your relationship, keep it up. That was absolutely the kindest compliment I have ever received. My marriage is a huge priority in my life and I love hearing from strangers that our love for each other is visible.  Seriously, that conversation made my month!

Whether its been a great or terrible day I yearn for that hug and kiss I get when I walk in the door, every single day. I love playfully making dinner together each evening! I love sitting next to my hubs at dinner and talking about our days and sharing all the funny stories. I love leaving notes and surprises for him to find. And I love finding those little things that he does for me.  I love when he does a few extra chores to make my day easier. There is no feeling that compares to the safety security and love that I get to experience every day in my committed, not new, married relationship. I LOVE IT! I would not trade it for anything. I am so grateful for our marriage and for my Mike.  I love him more than I have words to explain. 

Lots of love,
Brookeydee